If we're talking about the hair on your head, the best I can suggest is that you try a leave in conditioner. Also, the detnagler for kids that comes in a spray bottle does great too. Just use it whenever you brush your hair, and it helps to keep hair softer.  Have you tried using mayonaise when you wash your hair instead of conditioner? It does wonders for keeping hair soft and manageable. When you use it, leave it in your hair for about 5 minutes before you rinse it out. If it's extremely dry, there is always the option of using a hot oil treatmet. But unless it's really dry, I wouldn't try it.

My sister used one once for some reason and had a hard time getting it all out. Her hair wasn't nearly as dry as she thought it was apparently.