I don't know of anything that you can put in a lip product that actually plumps the lips in any meaningful way. The tingle comes from something known to be irritant like cinnamon oil that induces a mild reaction. This feels like plumping and even sometimes can have a measurable effect on lip plumpness, but it is temporary and to my mind completely pointless.
The person who comes up with a genuinely effective lip plumper will make a fortune.
But they haven't done it yet.